I do believe that we can continue to create purer and purer relationships, and I do see evidence of that in my own life. But it has taken me, it has required me to keep my heart open, even when I felt hurt or betrayed or misunderstood over and over again. The question always is not about what happened or what should happen, or how do I want to control what’s going to happen next time I have an interaction with someone. The question is: who do I want to be within myself, between me and God, betwe